Navigating Public Embarrassment and Rare Disorders: Dear Abbys Advice for Personal Relationships
In this week's edition of our beloved advice column, we hear from two readers facing unique challenges in their personal lives. The first letter is from a reader in California who is struggling with her boyfriend's controlling behavior in public, while the second is from a reader in the Northeast dealing with a rare skin condition and the challenges it presents in social situations.
First up, a reader in California writes about an incident where her boyfriend humiliated her in public by ordering her to apologize to a man in front of a store. The reader explains that she had gone to get a forgotten item and when she returned, her boyfriend loudly ordered her to apologize to the man. The reader feels that her boyfriend should not have made her feel like a misbehaving child in public, especially since it was not the first time he had done something like this. Abby advises the reader to think hard about whether she really wants a future with a partner who derives satisfaction from embarrassing her in public.
Next, a reader in the Northeast writes about living with a rare skin condition called ichthyosis, which causes their skin to be dry, scaly, and itchy. The reader explains that their skin is so sensitive that even the slightest touch can cause pain and discomfort. The reader is self-conscious about having their photo taken and is frustrated with those who insist on taking pictures despite their objections. Abby suggests that the reader consult with more than one professional to ensure they are receiving the best care possible, and to be upfront with photo-takers about their reasons for not smiling. Abby also suggests using makeup or other products to help cover up their skin condition and to be mindful of their surroundings when out in public.
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. You can reach out to Dear Abby at http://www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
